I’m Ayla
mother, wife, friend, therapist, writer, reader, gardener, traveler …
I value and prioritize both formal and life education. This means that the therapist I am is made up of not only the graduate degree I hold, as well as the lived experiences I have and the roles I play in my life.
I consume books and interviews like it’s my second job and I am always reading something delightful and fiction before bed (currently enjoying a fantasy series) and listening to things that make me laugh (like Good Hang with AP).
When I’m not devouring fiction, I am seeking literature that teaches me how to be a better, more informed and educated therapist, mother, and human. Below is what I am currently digesting:
What I am currently reading (updated 10/20/2025):
No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model - Dr. Richard Schwartz
Four Thousand Weeks - Oliver Burkeman
Mother Creature Kin: What We Learn From Nature’s Mothers in a Time of Unraveling - Chelsea Steinauer-Scudder
What I am listening to (updated 10/20/2025):
Podcast: Good Inside with Dr. Becky: When our nervous systems hijack our parenting
Podcast: Good Hang with Amy Poehler: Abbi Jacobson and Ilana Glazer
Book: The Brains Way of Healing - Norman Diodge, M.D.
Book: Boy Mom: Reimagining Boyhood in the Age of Impossible Masculinity
Podcast: Raising Parents with Emily Oster: Are Smartphones Stealing Childhood? and Are Boys Being Left Behind?
Formal Involvement, Trainings, and Qualifications
Completed:
Level 1 Emotionally Focused Therapy - EFT Externship
The Body Keeps The Score - Trauma Training
Internal Family Systems - Step-by-Step Procedures for Healing Traumatic Wounds and Alleviating Anxiety, Depression, Trauma, Addiction
In process:
Beginning February 2026: Advanced Perinatal Mental Health Specialist Training with Perinatal Mental Health Institute
Upcoming:
I am hopeful to be approved for IFS Level 1 training, which would allow me to apply for the IFIO Level 1 and IFS Level 2 training.
Permits and Education:
MFTC - Marriage and Family Therapist Candidate
Master’s Degree: University of Colorado Denver - Couple and Family Therapy
Bachelor’s Degree: University of Colorado Boulder - Spanish & Education
Memberships
American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy Member
Postpartum Support International Member